How to overcome Loneliness

Feb 12, 20184 comments

Have you ever experience an emptiness inside yourself?  You’re not alone. I understand because loneliness is a familiar foe.

Most of my life I’ve chased after experiences in finding satisfaction. Alcohol, drugs, and sex didn’t stop my loneliness. In fact, they became self-destructive activities that caused me trouble with the law and cost me my family affection.

Everything I tried to put to rest that feeling of alienation failed.

Humility over takes loneliness

Nothing the world offers has the tools needed to overcome loneliness. The problem in searching the planet for an inner-satisfaction is everything it gives is short-lived. Money, power, and prestige can’t fill the hole inside the human spirit because their demands are relentless.

So, what’s the solution?

Christ.

Loneliness is God’s invitation for me to pause and spend time in His presence. So, when I’m alone, it’s my responsibility to pray and ask for guidance. And when I reach out to Him with humility, then He embraces me with love.

Overcoming Loneliness

Facing lonely times is unavoidable. For example, when a loved one passes away it’s a natural reaction to experience loneliness. Divorce is another circumstance that brings on isolation. Christ understands those life terms will cause us to drift away.

But, by drawing closer to Jesus, we place ourselves in God’s hand leading us out of the lonely trap and into a life full of grace.

Victory over Loneliness

What if my loneliness continues to plague me even when I ask God for relief?

The first thing to remember is God’s timing is different. When God has yet to respond, I need to continue devoting myself to Christ. It’s my willingness to stay faithful that God takes notice and releases me from loneliness.

Another excellent action to take when waiting on Christ’s intercession is to help others. God wants us to take the focus off ourselves and give to those in need. And when we do this our renewed spirit is well worth, the time spent because it leads us away from loneliness.

Loneliness Enemy

Here’s something we both can agree on Christ never abandons us. And in lonely times when I trust in Him, it shows faith and captures God’s eyes.

It all boils down to this, reliance on Christ under every circumstance including loneliness gives us the strength to overcome problems. Here’s the interesting part of faith, it releases the power of God leading to eternal hope. Remember without Jesus help life is overwhelming.

And the best part is committing to God’s word brings an inner-peace so incredible it removes loneliness. How awesome is that?

How do you overcome Loneliness?

God smashes loneliness

4 Comments

  1. Lois

    That was the best ever, many of us need that,Mama Lois.

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    • Walter

      Thanks, mom glad you enjoyed it.

      Reply
  2. Deb

    Walter,
    The thought of being alone used to cripple me. I would do anything to avoid being alone, yet I always felt alone no matter who or how many I was with. When I came to know Christ, I would picture myself on an island, alone, yet content because I never have to be alone again. That thought still comforts me.
    Lovely post.
    deb

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    • walterkahler.wk@gmail.com

      Deb,
      My experience is similar to yours. I too know the difference between living without God and the devastating results of loneliness. And I agree with you Christ is remarkable in the way He allows us to know we are never alone. I loved the way you understand the hope this brings ” When I came to know Christ, I would picture myself on an island, alone, yet content because I never have to be alone again. That thought still comforts me.” I always enjoy witnessing your walk with Christ. Thanks for sharing.

      Reply

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